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Dom DeLorenzo wrote:

Dear fellow Catholics,

I have recently been told by an associate of mine (a foreigner to the Christian religion), that droning on and on, using the same prayers is dumb and disrespectful to God.

He said that only the Lord's Prayer needs to be known along with confessing your sins to Him.
He says God is not happy when you say ten or so, Hail Mary's after confessing to Him.

  • What do I say to him?
  • Is this true, because this is what I was taught.

The same person also said priests and the Pope are just guys that dress nice and work at Churches. He said they have no holy power nor ability to bless water or forgive sins, only God does.

  • So, what do I say to him?

These problems have really been bugging me.

Many thanks,

Dom

  { How do I respond to a foreigner to the Christian faith who is attacking my Catholic Christian faith? }

Mary Ann replied:

Dom —

  • Why do you let your heart be troubled by someone who is has no authority?
  • Why should some random Protestant's simple opinion shake your faith?

I am not going to address the issues, because our FAQ web page addresses them many times but
I would like to recommend that you learn your faith, the evidence for it, and the power of it.

Get a Catholic Catechism; don't be defensive: go on the offense in that you are armed and
ready with arguments when people attack your faith.

The attack on your faith may one day be more than verbal.

  • Do you believe?
  • Do you trust God?
  • Would you give your life for the truth of the Catholic Faith, for Christ and His Church?

Think on these things. Be glad God has called you to His one true Church, with the Apostolic teaching and the sacraments Christ gave; sacraments in which He acts to make us holy.

God bless.

Mary Ann

Mike replied:

Dear Dom,

First, I would like to echo the reply that my colleague Mary Ann has given.

Second, to the grave concern I have for the quality of life inside Catholic seminaries today,
the biggest problem in our Church is a lack of catechesis among Catholics in the Church, among both, those who make their Sunday obligation and those that don't.

In my opinion, the quality of our Catholic catechesis is terrible and there is no encouragement for our teenagers in CCD to:

  • remain faithful to the Magisterium and the Holy Father, to the extent of being willing to laid down their life for:
    • our Lord Jesus
    • His only Church, and
    • the divine Teachings that the Church has preserved for over 2,000 years.

Don't take this personally, but it appears you are one of many who have fallen into this category, so you have to ask yourself the question:

  • Do I just want to go through the motions, doing things, because "they" told me I have to?, or
  • Do you want to learn what you believe as a Catholic Christian and understand why you believe it?

There are some great new resources the Vatican has provided. Besides the standard for the faith: the Catechism of the Catholic Church, the Church has also provided the Compendium of the Catechism of the Catholic Church, and within the past few month: YouCat — the Vatican's way of being cool with the youth. In this age of text messaging there are so many abbreviations like: BFF, LOL, the Vatican has YC, which means YouCat: Youth Catechism.

Both the Compendium and YouCat come in a question and answer format, so if you have enjoyed visiting our site and the question and answer forum we have provided, I think you will enjoy both the Compendium and YouCat.

So my advice, get your YC today!

You said:
Is this true, because this is what I was taught.

After reading the first paragraph from your original question, what you were taught is incorrect. For that reason, I encourage you to learn the faith. Try to develop a library of books and resources. I have one. My library encompasses, in both, paper and computer form:

  • Church history and patristics
  • Catholic evangelization
  • Catholic apologetics: knowing how to defend arguments against what we believe in a charitable manner, and
  • Catholic devotions that assist me in my prayer life.

I have no idea how sincere your friend is, but if he is sincere just tell him, he is attacking a straw horse, a Church that doesn't exist. If you know he is not sincere, like Mary Ann said:

  • By what authority does he make these false claims and slander and distort our faith?

A problem many in the Church have today, is we let people slander and distort our faith without challenging them. It's politically incorrect to talk about region or faith, but it's OK to slander or distort the Christian faith, especially the Catholic faith. Ridiculous!

Certainly, if I started saying that Baptists believe in everything the Methodists believe in,
the Baptists would not be happy with me, and justly so.

We have so many treasures in the Church that we don't take advantage of. Scott Hahn has said:

We are like Rockefellers in the ghetto, who don't know how to write out a check.

Catholics, and other Christians with valid Holy Orders, are the only Christians who can partake in divine nature on a weekly and daily basis through the sacraments of the Church.

If partaking in divine nature with God Himself is not cool, I don't know what is. : )

  • It's your choice though, do you want to be just a bump on a log, or do you want to know and defend your faith?

The choice is yours and everyone's on the face of the earth.

Just my two cents.

Mike

Dom replied:

Mike,

I'd like to thank you and Mary Ann very much.

You have sincerely taught me to hold on to my faith and not let others bring me down. I will not let something like this happen again. I only ask to gain more knowledge and not for spiritual guidance, as I can only find that in myself.

Thanks again,

Dom

Mike replied:

Hi, Dom —

No, problem.

If you do need some spiritual guidance try to find a spiritual director/priest within your diocese.

You may also be able to find one at a nearby monastery or religious house.

Mike

Dom replied:

Thank you very much.

I will be sure to do that.

When my grandma was anointed, I spoke with a priest for a while.

When I go for Confession next time, I will ask for some guidance.

Dom

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